A royal f up :( but life goes on!

So remember Chris (22 year old, friend of a friend that I met and got close to). Well after Saturday I hadn't really heard from him much. Which was a little strange we talked all day for the past 3 days.  He was in the blue mountain visiting his brother and mom. Just checked in to see how his day was going. He responded very broadly and then that was it, no other conversation was held. Weird to me as well. After a couple hours of nothing I sent a good night message with a sad face, why the sad face he responds. I say just because we haven't talked much that day. His excuse was he hasn't really used his phone that much, fair excuse. So the next day goes by no word, and then by the time I know it it's Wednesday. That's 2 days of not even a "hi", none the less he's been sending snapchats and posting stuff on instragram and Facebook. So of course I jump to the conclusion that he is an asshole and isn't going to talk to me anymore for whatever reason he thinks is logical. I message him about it (maybe not the nicest message, hell I was mad)! it turns out he really doesn't have time for me, because he has work and school and he can't just drop everything for me....I guess he wasn't that special anyways. What the hell is he talking about IT'S ALL ABOUT ME!? I'm

Just kidding, I didn't expect him to drop everything but a simple text message saying hello, and maybe throwing in a I'm really busy but I promise ill see you before you leave would have been nice! Whatever, he was way to young, even if he did have a career and all that stuff set up. Plus there are way cuter boys around ;). So anyways I guess that can be considered the shortest relationship I have had! Lol 1 week, woo! That's great! Not that we were really in a relationship but we spent 3 days together, that is something. And after 3 days I didn't want to murder him like most people! Anyway lesson learned don't jump to conclusions. I could have taken a less "patronizing" (that's  the word he used when responding to my angry text) route, like maybe asking if I did something wrong, but who am I kidding. I don't have time for that shit! I'm getting old! ;p Another thing that this made me think about, don't EVER let being busy and not having time to talk to someone you care about be an excuse. You never know what tomorrow might hold, life is a gift and can never be taken for granted. I'm busy is by far the stupidest excuse in the book! If anyone uses it be warned you will be slapped!